How has social media helped in reducing suicide attempts in India?

Suicide

In 2005, a man from Delhi was searching the net for ways to commit suicide. Relationship issues, false criminal cases, atrocities from police and above all a social boycott by relatives and friends had hit him hard. Moreover, separation from his two year old kid had made things worse. He has later founded a self-help group for men in India. This group started India’s only privately managed national helpline for men.

Depression is said to be the main cause of suicide. However, this can’t explain the phenomenon yet. Globally women are more prone to depression for various physiological reasons but men are forced into depression through various social and legal means. In 2014 approximately 90,000 males had committed suicide in India compared to 42,521 women.

The main reason for ever increasing male suicide in India is legal extortion in matrimonial disputes and reconfirmation of male gender roles of being provider and protector through various legislations. While a society strives for gender equality these legislations reconfirm traditional gender stereotypes and not only strip men of their life’s assets but also deprive them from the love and proximity of their children. With absence of any mechanism to address these issues, men often suffer from social alienation that lead to extreme depression followed by a sense of worthlessness and suicide. A man who sees himself as a provider and protector of others loses all meanings of his life when he can’t even protect himself.

There has been many efforts to reduce depression and suicide. Men’s groups are specifically active in this area as it is men who commit more suicide. There exists many articles from men’s websites addressing this issue and The Male Factor had been a pioneer in that. One way these campaigns are bringing results is by showing how futile and useless is suicide with examples. For examples, with different case studies MRAs show how someone’s suicide over a family issue had in fact led to aggravated scenario and increased trouble for his other family members.

One problem with depression is that most often we do not even know that we are depressed. American National Institute of Mental Health lists these as symptoms of depression –

  1. Persistent sad, anxious, or “empty” mood
  2. Feelings of hopelessness, pessimism, guilt, worthlessness
  3. Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities
  4. Loss of interest in activities or hobbies once pleasurable
  5. Decreased energy, fatigue
  6. Difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions
  7. Difficulty sleeping, or oversleeping
  8. Appetite and / or weight changes
  9. Thoughts of death or suicide, suicide attempts
  10. Persistent headaches, cramps, digestive problems

It is also pertinent to note that depression need to be treated based on the cause of occurrence and need expert care. Thanks to social media help is at hand today. Consistent efforts by people to talk about suicide and depression on social media certainly has better prospect to reach more people and bring the required change.

A good positive and social lifestyle with positive habits and giving up all negative habits (like drinking, smoking etc.) and a simple lifestyle with good food habits is said to control depression, hypertension and suicidal tendency. We need to understand that even though social media can create awareness, addiction to social media may be disastrous. Humans need more human interaction to fight depression instead.

***

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s