A few years ago, some Indian MRAs asked me to join their group of Anti-Marriage. I refused because I felt India was not ready at that point in time to take a giant leap in that direction. In my own study I found India men are at least three times more eager to get married than Indian women. So, it didn’t make any sense to me to straightway start a new aspect of men’s rights. I was also concerned that Indian MRAs will not be able to create right communication for this. When the base of MRM was not strong, the communication was not matured and when Indian MRAs failed to create any meaningful channel (either a blog or VLOG), I was concerned that such random communication could kill the prospects of MRM altogether.
A few years on today, however, I feel I have the right kind of communication available from men globally that I can write about and educate young, unmarried men around the globe about why men are boycotting marriage globally.
In a feminist article for a woman’s magazine the feminist author blamed the government for a large number of exodus of men from the marriages, but more than the article itself the comments made by the men were eye-openers. Each and every comment was so insightful about this problem that I could hardly segregate comments based on their importance. And hence I have decided to make this a series titled #MarriageStrike.
In this series titled Marriage Strike, I discuss the comments made by other men about why they chose not to marry or date any woman and decided to live a happy single life.
Avoid The Burden
Men undergoes the grind of life and accumulate wealth, buy their house, get stability in life and when they get married, a woman who had no contribution in his life or finances starts controlling his wealth, life and every aspect of it.
With no responsibility assigned to women in marriages, she just becomes a parasite and demands to have equal say in his life and wealth where she had no contribution. No self-respecting man can tolerate that. They are definitely better off earning less and enjoying their life with other male friends without any unnecessary intervention in their personal matters.
Casual Relationships Are Way Cheaper
With the invention of women’s birth control pills, women tasted their sexual freedom for the first time and as they started joining the workforce their promiscuous attitude started showing up. As the women themselves fought to remove the shame attached to their promiscuous behavior as a ‘choice’, they lost their only power for which men used to get attracted to them – sex.
When you know that sex is available aplenty around you, and when women are more than willing to sleep around without marriage, why marry? Marriage invariably became unnecessary for men as both men and women started enjoying uncontrolled sex. That is why, in Hinduism unbridled sex is a strict no-no and women were kept protected and their sexual power was not only admired but often worshipped. The value and respect women had by controlling their sexual urge, was lost when they started freely distributing it, and also supporting that behavior as their right.
If promiscuous behaviour was not enough, women started becoming excessively arrogant, rude and uncivilized with their empowerment, as they were not made equally responsible. Since the responsibility is taken away, their freedom took a nasty turn that many women understand as well –
So, it is not that women do not understand they have become trash, ALL of them have turned so because it was feminists themselves who wanted to categorize women as a ‘class’. Now when some in that class behave in rude and uncivilized manner, the ‘class’ gets the burnt.
Feminism has Turned Women into Men
Moreover, as feminism wanted equality to men they tried to abolish all gender differences that a man and a woman has. So, women lost their attractiveness. Coupled with this, is the abusive and unruly behavior that is often so beastly in nature that any respectful man would distance himself
From such women. Men now think if his woman will dress properly public or roam naked. Like for the man above he is happy as long as his woman dresses up in public. Now the embarrassment that a husband has to go through from such wives is often overbearing and marriage strike and distancing from such trash women seems to be the best option.
Women are criminals
Coupled with women’s nasty behavior, women are not punished adequately and very often not punished at all for the crimes they commit. Their crimes are not limited within the periphery
of their homes but extends beyond. The cruel nature of these crimes and a guaranteed shield against severe punishment incentivize every woman (yes, every woman, including your loved ones) to commit more heinous crimes and get away with those. In this situation, which peace-loving and law-abiding man will try to even get close to these monsters?
Feminists say, why should men have all the fun. So, they are taught to spend money more than they can even earn. With free benefits and extra shower of cash and goods showering on them for no reason makes them greedy even more.
At a time when men are busy earning money to have some meaningful life, women are enjoying their lives with the money their boyfriends or husbands earn. So, they keep changing boyfriends or have weird expectations from them in terms of meeting their lifestyle needs. It’s not that men do not notice such wayward lifestyle of women around them, they know eventually it’s their hard-earned money that will be burnt if they even try to bond with women.
-End of Part 1