I have always wondered –
1. Why gay and lesbian relations are promoted so widely by a state? And
2. Why it is always that feminists promote these relations?
Supreme Courts on Gay Marriage
Earlier the US supreme court and now the Indian Supreme Court has upheld gay marriage. Like many have changed their Facebook profile image to transparent rainbow colors showing their support for homosexuals earlier will do the same even now. Many others have refrained earlier from doing so because they thought that changing their profile pic might represent themselves as homosexuals, rather than showing support.
India, Supreme Court has gone one step ahead by saying History needs to apologize to the LGBT community. However, what psychologists say, is that this is a psychological problem that one faces. So, LGBT should not be promoted by any state.
Let’s try to take a peek into what psychologists and so called transgenders say.
Can We Turn One Into Gay By Social Conditioning?
I was under the opinion that glorifying same-sex relations could turn a normal society into a society of homosexuals. So I started doing research on “whether it is possible to change someone’s sexual orientation from ‘straight’ to ‘gay’ by manipulating social and environmental factors“.
Before we delve into this topic we need to understand the following concepts as used in this article –
State – A state is the global entity of a group of powerful people who want to capture the entire wealth of the world. (Understand the concepts of New World Order to understand this). It is not the nations bound by international borders.
Sexual orientation identity – Sexual orientation of a person is one’s physical attraction towards genders. e.g. Straight, gay, bisexual etc.
Gender orientation identity – How one identifies oneself in terms of gender. i.e. male, female, trans etc.
Sexual Orientation is Fluid
Researchers have found that sexual orientation and gender identity are not rigid or constant throughout one’s lifetime but these are rather fluid. This video clarifies the point –
So we understand that we are “mostly male” or “mostly female” rather than living in a binary gender system of “male”, “female” etc.
But still, the main question remains unanswered – “whether we can change one’s sexual orientation from ‘straight’ to ‘gay’ by manipulating his social and environmental factors? The answer is shockingly ‘YES’.
Factors Affecting Sexual Identity
A quick read of this article will tell you that our sexual orientation identity depends on psychological factors, our thoughts etc. There may be cases that we get physical attraction towards persons rather than a gender. When we understand that this concept is rather fluid than rigid we understand this better.
A quick study of Wikipedia article on our sexual orientation also reveals that our sexual orientation can be changed by –
cognitive behavioral techniques
medical approaches etc.
Creating Homosexuals Out of Normal People
Even though all leading professional psychological associations discourage anyone from trying to do the same. The article concludes that conversion of gays into straight people is highly unlikely and should not be tried. But it never says that converting straight guys into gays is not possible. This website on human sexual orientation shows that the ‘straight’ people can, in fact, be converted into ‘gays’ (point #6) as it depends on their psychological factors or thought process. This article also shows that the reverse is not possible (point #7) as also said by leading psychological associations.
This study by The American Psychological Association confirms that one’s sexual orientation identity can change throughout one’s life.
Social psychologist Darryl Bem of Cornell University showed that our gender identity needs confirmation in our childhood by existing social norms of acceptable gender behaviour. However, when the existing social gender norms create a sense of mismatch in a child’s mind one will become a sexually non-conforming child and will feel ‘different’ from his own gender. This will eventually lead to him getting sexually attracted to the people of the same gender.
In short, a straight boy can be converted into a gay by confusing him of his gender identity through the state-sponsored education system and by implying new social and behavioural norms.
In this research paper, American sociologist Peter Bearman of Colombia University has shown that same-sex attraction can be created by presenting enough socially structured opportunities. These opportunities are nothing but over glorifying same-sex relationships as is happening today.
This study shows that boys are more likely to be ‘gays if they do not get proper paternal care or raised by single/divorced mothers.
A 2006 Danish study, that we get the reference in Wikipedia shows –
“Heterosexual marriage was significantly linked to having young parents, small age differences between parents, stable parental relationships, large numbers of siblings, and late birth order. Children who experience parental divorce are less likely to marry heterosexually than those growing up in intact families.
For men, same-sex marriage was associated with having older mothers, divorced parents, absent fathers, and being the youngest child.
For women, maternal death during adolescence and being the only or youngest child or the only girl in the family increased the likelihood of same-sex marriage”
A study by Cameron Paul published in The Journal of Biosocial sciences in 2006 shows that children raised by same-sex parents are more likely to be homosexuals rather than being heterosexual.
So by creating a social norm for homosexuality (or by glorifying the same) and promoting homosexual relations, it is possible to create a society of homosexuals that will continue to have only homosexuals. We were just a part of this social experiment recently when we supported and promoted gay marriages overwhelmingly.
Anthropologists have also shown that the primitive cultures that do not reward or distinguish any behavior have NO homosexuality; however, the culture that is more tolerant of such behavior have more homosexuals.
In the US the number of homosexuals is increasing. Binnie Klein in this article has stated that “It’s clear that a change in sexual orientation is imaginable to more people than ever before, and there’s more opportunity – and acceptance – to cross over the line”.
So from the above discussion, it is clear that the sexual orientation of our children can be changed by influencing social norms and glorifying certain behaviour. The reason our normal family relations of heterosexual couples are broken by the state by implementing laws in the name of feminism is a step towards this. More single mother children, children alienated from their fathers and more homosexual couples will lead to ‘convert‘ otherwise normal or straight children into homosexuals.
Now see what this person who identified himself as a transgender has to say –
Question is why would the ‘state’ do this?
The answer is simple. When you don’t have your own children and when the state can remotely control your life, your bedroom, and your future, you turn into a slave. You may not recognize but the state has complete control over you and your property. Feminism is the easy tool to achieve that. In fact, global feminist leaders may be the agents of the state and may not be females at all. Now that we know there is the endless possibility of gender, this option seems more likely.
So, this glorification of same-sex relation in any manner will turn our children into one. We have just participated in a social experiment and confirmed that we are okay for the ‘state’ to control us. Now we have no option but to accept homosexuality of our children.