Wanna change something in the society?
That will help the future generation.
Well then stop filing false rape cases and creating hype around rape based on media reports –
And stop revealing the names of the accused. That ruins their lives unnecessarily.
The Male Factor (TMF) 
“And stop revealing the names of the accused. That ruins their lives unnecessarily”….I hope you meant “falsely accused”….otherwise this doesn’t make any sense ….
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How do you know who is falsely accused and who is not? Newspapers only report a case on first information. They only say “allegedly there is a rape” in news body whereas the heading says rape..problem is most of the time we go by the title and do not read the news properly..
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Absolutely right Parth..
Newspapers only report a case on first information.
Newpaper walo ko sirf news se matlab hai kisi ki badnami ho unhe kya?? aur sirf purushokehi nam diye jate hai news me…
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As far as Badaun rape case is concerned , I had a hunch as to why would anyone hang their bodies for every one to see after raping them if they really raped them.Rather they would destroy the body completely without evidence.And also , the highest independent investigative team whose panel of investigators are appointed by the supreme court of justice before whom every body including President to bow down has determined that there was no NON CONSUAL sex was involved. But the news was rarely covered and the news channels rarely covered the news and newspapers did publish only as a news brief in middle pages somewhere and some or most people don’t know it still.And so is the case with all other cases.But immediately the rumours of rape or a word of mouth of female is taken as Gods irrefutable truth and it is assumed beyond doubt that rape has happened and 24/7 365 days happily they will destroy the dignity , honour, character, status, whatever the name and fame the innocent man must have earned and which is highly detrimental to the psyche and morale of the person because even the family members , relatives, neighbours, friends, colleagues look with suspicion.This causes severe mental, emotional and psychological trauma to the individual .Thereby it destroys the family life , love life, sexual life , and has profound effect on the mans job as he is arrested based on word of mouth of female.As he is sent to remand , he cannot appear to office and has to apply for paid leave.Meaning he will not get any livelihood and his wife and kids , mother, father, sisters, brothers have to suffer in case the family is running on his income.If the wife is unscrupulous she will use this situation to give divorce. Also give up car, bungalow, bank balance, lands, immovable property, shares and all the dowry and also all the money she put during marriage. She may also take away the custody of kids.Otherwise she may book 498a, civil dowry harassment, dowry taking , domestic violence , marital rape cases.All these laws combined can send a person to jail for 8 yrs.If the person is weak, he will commit suicide.And police will close the case as financial and personal reasons.Or if the person is strong , he has to fight all the false cases one by one.And for each case for the hearing, he has to dedicate time to come to lawyer to talk to him and to court for the hearing and the police to sign everyday in case bail is given after paying a huge amount of money .And as he will be entangled in false cases he will lose his job and income.So n money to fight the cases.He has to use up all his bank savings to pay for lawyer as lawyers are very costly. Sometimes you have to takedebts on huge interest to pay for lawyers.Otherwise you may also have to sell your property for this purpose.Even though you have gone bankrupt and lost all your life savings, in the mean while the wife will apply for free money from you under alimony act, compensation act, Hindu marriage act 24, maintenance act, crpc 125 , domestic violence act, Irbm etc .If you fail to pay you have to go to jail again.Also divorce is not easily given except through mutual consent.Therefore you have to endure long years for divorce.So even if you successfully are released with innocence you will lose your youth , money and will be left with psychological trauma.So it will be a lose a lose situation for men.
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As far as Badaun rape case is concerned , I had a hunch as to why would anyone hang their bodies for every one to see after raping them if they really raped them.Rather they would destroy the body completely without evidence.And also , the highest independent investigative team whose panel of investigators are appointed by the supreme court of justice before whom every body including President to bow down has determined that there was no NON CONSUAL sex was involved. But the news was rarely covered and the news channels rarely covered the news and newspapers did publish only as a news brief in middle pages somewhere and some or most people don’t know it still.And so is the case with all other cases.But immediately the rumours of rape or a word of mouth of female is taken as Gods irrefutable truth and it is assumed beyond doubt that rape has happened and 24/7 365 days happily they will destroy the dignity , honour, character, status, whatever the name and fame the innocent man must have earned and which is highly detrimental to the psyche and morale of the person because even the family members , relatives, neighbours, friends, colleagues look with suspicion.This causes severe mental, emotional and psychological trauma to the individual .Thereby it destroys the family life , love life, sexual life , and has profound effect on the mans job as he is arrested based on word of mouth of female.As he is sent to remand , he cannot appear to office and has to apply for paid leave.Meaning he will not get any livelihood and his wife and kids , mother, father, sisters, brothers have to suffer in case the family is running on his income.If the wife is unscrupulous she will use this situation to give divorce. Also give up car, bungalow, bank balance, lands, immovable property, shares and all the dowry and also all the money she put during marriage. She may also take away the custody of kids.Otherwise she may book 498a, civil dowry harassment, dowry taking , domestic violence , marital rape cases.All these laws combined can send a person to jail for 8 yrs.If the person is weak, he will commit suicide.And police will close the case as financial and personal reasons.Or if the person is strong , he has to fight all the false cases one by one.And for each case for the hearing, he has to dedicate time to come to lawyer to talk to him and to court for the hearing and the police to sign everyday in case bail is given after paying a huge amount of money .And as he will be entangled in false cases he will lose his job and income.So n money to fight the cases.He has to use up all his bank savings to pay for lawyer as lawyers are very costly. Sometimes you have to takedebts on huge interest to pay for lawyers.Otherwise you may also have to sell your property for this purpose.Even though you have gone bankrupt and lost all your life savings, in the mean while the wife will apply for free money from you under alimony act, compensation act, Hindu marriage act 24, maintenance act, crpc 125 , domestic violence act, Irbm etc .If you fail to pay you have to go to jail again.Also divorce is not easily given except through mutual consent.Therefore you have to endure long years for divorce.So even if you successfully are released with innocence you will lose your youth , money and will be left with psychological trauma.So it will be lose a lose situation for men.
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Also as far as the rape cases are concerned first and foremost a medical examination must be conducted which best determines if any consensual or non consensual sex was involved and that medical test which can more accurately determine whether forced non consenual sex has happened or not .And then lie detector test must be performed on the lady.And then lie detector test must be performed on the man.And the average mean of all the three results must be taken into consideration. If the results are showing a probability of possible rape by more than 50%, then only the police should proceed with the case.Remember , these tests also have a probability of being inaccurate b only their probability of being false is less than that being right.Next bail should be relatively easily given if the lady is or was having an affair with the accused .Also the bail must be relatively easily given if the man is suffering from hyper sexuality disorder.And if it is proven by the accusin body beyond a shadow of the tiniest amount of doubt thatI indeed he had non consensual sex, then based on the intensity of crime and degree of impact the punishment need to be set.Also , the circumstances which lead to non consensual sex like the lady is wearing almost no are little clothes , was smoking and drinking, took drugs, smooching and making out with lover in the public, dancing erratically, the accused is drunk etc etc should also be taken into account while awarding the punishment.Lastly the lifestyle of the lady should also be taken into account such as whether the woman is promiscuous, adulteress, fornicator, call girl, porn star,onewho uses call boys for sex etcetc should be noticed.And above all it should be gender neutral.And also appropriate punishment and penalty must be included for misuse.
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May be after Nirbhaya law is reverted back to ‘Anti Rape law’ ,Crpc code must be ammended such that if indeed after all the preliminary tests ,results are showing a minimum possibilty of 50 % of rape ,then only criminal proceedings should be initiated.
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On the contrary ,Infact the identity and credentials of the misuser should be made public so that people may be cautious when dealing with the lady.
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Badaun Rape case is false….Is muder not a crime?
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Is it mandatory to term every murder as rape? Can’t there be any murder without rape?
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In Andhrapradesh a lady was having sex with an auto driver when her own child happened to look at it when he came back home.The lady chased her and asked the auto wala to hold him and then she took kerosine and poured it on the child and lit fire and watched as he was burning alive.Then she safely reported that the child was missing.The news came in a news brief inside middle page of a very few newspapers and only one or two newschannels potrayed it for brief period of time.REASON It was a BOY who was burnt beyond recognition.He was 10 yrs old.
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CBI has posted its report that it was not rape. Suspicions are on the family for filing false report. If that is the case, who is to be blamed for the turmoil of the innocent men accused. And I know, you would not want any action against the criminals “the media”, which tends to highlight these events upon their whims. Its high time these channels are gravely punished for their crimes. Otherwise they will just sit back and laugh at us.
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Ridwanji, its great that you use the term lady, but has the word gentleman ever occured to you.No one is saying that the names of the criminals should be withheld.But should it be before court decides they are innocent or not. But if by some fortitude, you are wrongly accused and in the media sensationalism, I will look fondly for it
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They have been caught telling lies. they will stay quiet for a little time and then get back into their rape focus They know, as bastards as they are , they need the polarization to justify their existence. So good luck to the guys they catch.
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One last point , false rape cases should be treated as rape.. and so should be the punishment.
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Kitani ghatiya country me rehate hai ham jaha mahila karoon upyog kam durupyog jyada karati hai…
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Rape ke ek FIR pe media tv aur news paper ne aadami ka naam disclose karate hai aur case joota nikalane ke bad bhi ladakiyoka naam disclose nahi kiya jata.. kya izzat sirk mahilao ko hoti hai???
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My marriage was fixed in 2012 with girl. she is my relative also.
I had lodged report on Dec 2012 with Police Station, alleging that, “the girl had affairs with other persons and I was not willing to marry her but the parents of the girl are pressurizing him to perform marriage with the girl.”
In Jan 2013 she file rape case on me & i get bail after 15 days. I have girl’s phone & all What’s app chat & SMS. Till date case is only on appearance stage.
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this line dedicated to our great “Abala Nari & Tabala Law”
Incident with consent..
Pleasure cent per cent..
Too late the complaint..
What to do with the plaint..
Yours Faithfully
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